Praise

That's the essence of life, a way to love and be loved. Praise as if it really mattered, as though you really meant it. The wisest are so called for a reason: they claim that a real friend is not somebody who is ready to guide you through your sadness, but the one who can be trully happy for your success. Share gain rather than pain; don't wait for mysery to show you care. Always try to find something nice to say, and feel free to be the next example of joy and determination. Praise the beauty your eyes can see, praise the places your feet can take you to, praise the songs your whole body can hear and turn into beautiful thoughts. Praise every little thing around you and this feeling shall be the hand you needed to make the most of your every day. Remember that life is not about what you live, but how you see it coming. And if you think you can't handle it, take a deep breath and give it a shot. You have the rest of your life to be a better person - all you gotta do is start trying.
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You and your heart shouldn't feel so far apart...